Friday, April 18, 2008

Cheating on your club

At our club's most recent meeting, Wendi Svoboda - our immediate past president and an area governor - gave an intriguing speech, which she had prepared just moments before. The title of her speech was "Cheating on your club." Her speech challenged us to join other clubs. Even though we are emotionally attached to our club and the idea of joining another club may seem like cheating it is a great opportunity for many reasons. Some of the reasons that she gave included, more speaking opportunities, a chance to help a struggling club and to a see how other clubs operate.

There was more to Wendi's very interesting speech but I wanted to share the salient point about joining other clubs. Oh and finally she added that joining another club does not mean you are disloyal.

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Tuesday, April 01, 2008

Why Join Toastmasters

In all aspects of our lives the ability to communicate effectively is a skill devoutly to be desired, because the better you are understood the less Confusion reigns. We also cannot forget communication's faithful companion and that is listening. At a toastmasters club you are afforded the opportunity to develop both skills. We also will throw in the opportunities to develop leadership skills and to meet new people.

I had a profound fear of speaking before small informal groups up to large formal settings. It all terrified me, yet I had deep abiding desire to share my thoughts with others without the pitfalls of a small riot of butterflies breaking out in my stomach. I heard of toastmasters in my senior year of college but it was not until later on in my professional career that I was confronted with the need to develop effective public speaking skills or change careers, so I took a chance and attended a meeting.

My first meeting was initially a bit intimidating because everyone was speaking well and there was a camaraderie amongst the members that I not yet a part of. However, to ease any discomfort I may be experiencing a member of the club was seated next to me and sharing with me what was going on during the meeting and answering any questions I had. The rest, as they say, is history. I joined the club and have not looked back. In fact, I stayed in my profession and have thrived, which I directly attribute to the skills developed as a toastmaster.

It may sound pollyannish but I assure you it is derived from the fact that there are not many places that afford you an opportunity to fail in the interest of learning. At a job if you fail that may be the end of that employment. We provide a safe environment to develop speaking skills.

Our meetings are open, so feel free to check us out and please note there is no fee for visiting our club.